WHY??

 why the girl are always compelled to do this...to do that....

why always surrounding wants to decide what is good for women?

I can see all girls are are compelled by their partner or relatives, its very heart breaking that we are living in 21st century with lot of differences and frustration given by close one.

I think 33 years old women is mature enough to decide what is good for her and family . There is no harm in discussing anything but to compel anyone is pathetic.